[Part 2] #Feminism: Women who really need men

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If you missed the first part you can read it HERE. When a lady calls herself a feminist, I just take a moment to laugh my head off, it's like a third world joke.

I didn't plan to write again about feminism so soon until recently when I read the story of Chloie Johnson, if you haven't seen or heard the story let me take a few minutes to fill you in.

Chloie, genetically born a male, underwent sex reassignment surgery in 2006 and now he/she is legally recognized as a woman by the State of California. 

It wasn't really a biggie until  Chloie -- 5'4", 151 lbs -- asked to be competing in the Weight Lifting Games with ladies - she was refused. Laughably, Chloie claims the company is violating her civil rights by not letting her compete as a woman.  

A man is considered to be a good weight lifter when he can lift more than 400+ at a go, on the other hand, a woman is considered to be a good weight lifter when she can benchpress more than 200. As funny as it may sound, All wise Chloie expects to compete with women with all the normal male hormones and  structures.

Everyday a trans-woman is added to the feminist group, I need someone to tell me this doesn't dilute the strength of the message they are sending out and when I saw a review on trans-women bullying women on a day-day basis, I felt sorry for the ladies who had lost both battles on one front.

Feminism: a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women.

New Feminism: it implies the rejection of maternal values, nurturing of children and seeing yourself as a victim of an oppressive patriarchy 

The reality here is, the only people who take feminism seriously are the feminists. 

In Nigeria, one needs to educate the young ones not to be misled by the hopeless proud hags who are tired of parading Redeem churches and MFM crusades in a quest for a partner.

Fewer men are doing acts of chivalry for women, such as stopping to help change a tire, standing up in a BRT bus for a woman to sit down.... If women want equality then they should not expect special privileges from men.

As a feminist, its important you find this article to be demeaning and devaluing, but the truth is, there are people who will not sit down and watch this world go into extinction. Agree or not, feminism not only preaches hate towards the opposite sex but also promotes lesbianism.

Home is the true wife's kingdom, you can be a career-driven woman and still have a happy home. The important thing is to put your home before your work. Like Thomas Wolfe said "There is no spectacle on earth more appealing than that of a beautiful woman in the act of cooking dinner for someone she loves."

Marriage and motherhood have their trials and tribulations, but what lifestyle doesn't? If you look upon your home as a cage, you will find yourself just as imprisoned for the rest of your life.

A good woman is a wondrous creature, she is like a tree planted by streams of water, she's like a treasure, she would be adored for the rest of her life. To really understand what a woman should be, I would suggest every woman who wants to be happy in a relationship should read Proverbs 31:10-31.


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